I'm not here to try to disprove both sides, people have their opinion, i have one too..i believe in love..and the risks it entails..i believe regardless of the background and culture, humans long to love and to be loved...we are created to love...and even if our hearts have gone through the most painful and heartbreaking situations in a relationship, we still try..we soldier on...broken and bleeding, we still fight and risk everything for a chance to be love or feel love again...
hmmm in a perfect world maybe this is true but others who have gone the same situations can't help but feel otherwise...they say that every heartbreak that a person goes through means a little piece of them dies along with it...it causes us to trust less...insecure and maybe a little paranoid...it shapes us to a point where we hurt one another without even knowing a reason why, we become our own worst enemy..fuel to our own destruction...that is why theres is nothing like the first love...this was us at a point where we are at our best...we believed more, worked more and basically loved more...we were risk takers, unafraid of express what we felt or feeling..we were dreamers, hoped for the bests, romantically insane and thought that fairy tales are not just stories on a page but can actually transpire in our lives...then comes that dreadful day..the talk, or phone call or that message that you wished you never read..everything from that day on changes...our mindset, perspective on people in general...we question almost anything anyone does for us...we become guarded or even resistive of the idea of being in a relationship again..we risk less..we analyze more...
soo why go through it again? why care again? why risk again? ohhhh the whys can keep going!...but why???AGAIN!!...because there is no better feeling in the world than being loved by someone and giving the same to another...there just isn't...we can fill our lives with 'stuff', build our castles as high as our eyes can see...we can have the 'dream job' or luxury life but there is no better satisfaction or high compared to having someone in your life who loves you genuinely and truly...its the kinda thing that no money in this world can buy...and i think no matter how hard we try to suppress or try to over-analyze it there is really no escaping it..like i said we are created to love, we didn't come out of our mothers womb hating!lol...we were innocent, somewhat oblivious to our environment, clean slates that is ultimately shaped by the environments we are born in...situations, good or bad makes us who are today...
yes its an uphill climb for a lot of us..and most us just ends up giving up on this thing called love but life is an adventure full of surprises..more good than bad i guess but don't you want to live a life having done the best you can possibly do with it, whether it be in relationships or your life in general...no regrets or what if's....we are student in this-so-called-life...and a lot of us don't give ourselves enough credit of doing anything good in life...soo let's be ready to learn and take notes, yes there will 'blood' and `gut's spilled' but that's life in general..its cruel and unfair..we lose more than we win but time is against us and we don't have the luxury of it...soo why love?? i guess it all boils down to this quote i found:
If you have love in your life it can make up for a great many things you lack. If you don't have it, no matter what else there is, it's not enough. Ann Landers
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